Sarah was the first girl that I ever imagined being married to. This is 100% a true statement. I’m not misremembering or reinventing how I felt 30 years ago. I can’t remember precisely when that feeling hit me, but I know it was very soon after we got together. Before Sarah, there were girls I dated just to figure out what dating was, there were girls I dated where I knew things would be short term, and there were girls I dated where the relationship was barely even real. (I make it sound like there were teams of girls in each of those categories but there were literally three people.) Then, along came Sarah. We were friends for a long time before things progressed, and getting together wasn’t a sure thing. There was a sense of doom attached to it at first. We were both dating other people at the time and we were sure a lot of people would hate us if we ever got together. But then we broke up with the people we were dating, we got together – and it was magic. It was love between fr...